This article is for any guy who has ever gone into a gym
with the intention of working out and getting fit, only to be blown away by all
the amazing hotties working out at the same place.
You have probably thought to yourself, this place is full of
amazing talent, I wonder how I could get to know some of these fit beautiful
women. Well in this article, I am going to show you how.
When we are at the gym pumping iron, getting healthier and more
attractive to women, it's pretty nice to see beautiful women trying to do the
same and let's face it, some of them look pretty damn hot in their hugging
leotards and skimpy outfits and as long as you don't mind a bit of sweat, it's
actually pretty sexy.
Sure you get your occasional chubby housewife or determined
senior citizen but if you go to a good gym then at least half of the women
should be do-able because the fact of the matter is, most beautiful women want
to continue being beautiful and so they want to work out.
Some women go to female only gyms because they don't like
the leering stares of horny men or are just really insecure about their bodies
but most prefer to just go to the mixed gender gyms because on some level they
enjoy being checked out by lots of guys, it's good for their self esteem and
they want to feel wanted.
That doesn't mean they sleep with every guy there that wants
them because most beautiful women aren't attracted to the insecure guys who
look but are too afraid to touch, they want the guys who are courageous and
masculine, who approach them with confidence and ease and make them blush like
bashful schoolgirls.
Most guys will just glare at girls from across the floor and
keep trying to catch their eye, hoping that they are checking him out and they
like what they see. Then after awhile they might build up the confidence to
approach but when they do they get shut down because they have already
demonstrated that they are not confident high value men.
There are however a minority of guys who attract and seduce
women at the gym regularly, who use the gym as a great avenue for meeting
beautiful women; these guys know the rules of the gym seduction game and they
understand the etiquette.
I am one of those guys, I have been for years, ever since I
decided that I no longer wanted to limit my 'hunting grounds' to nightclubs and
bars; I realized that the gym like many other public places was full of
opportunities to seduce beautiful women, all I had to do was learn through a
lot of trial and error the best way to consistently attract and seduce
beautiful women at my local gym.
I am now going to share with you the fruits of my labour in
these "10 tips for picking up beautiful women at your gym". If you
follow these tips precisely then you too will learn how to seduce gym hotties
with a skill and class that will leave your gym peers envious.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 1: Don't Do Womens Classes
Every time I go to the Gym I always see these pathetic guys
participating in the aerobics classes predominantly designed for women. They
will go in there smiling and nodding their heads and then when the stretching
begins they are covertly checking out all the girls, thinking they're getting
away with it.
Most women aren't stupid if they see a straight guy doing
"Jazzercise" they are going to think that he is either an emasculated
closet homosexual or they will think that he is just there to creep on the
girls, either way it is not good for your image.
Stick to the gender appropriate exercises and classes, and
retain your masculinity and pride; at most gym's you will see these girls on
the gym floor at some point anyway so you don't need to join a class just for
the opportunity to talk to them and besides, leotards just look really wrong on
men.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 2: Be Sociable With Everyone
It's essential for your success in picking up at the gym
that you don't look like you are only there to creep on girls; that's why when
we go to the gym we make sure that we are friendly and sociable with everyone
that we interact with and not just the beautiful women.
The best place to start is with the staff, get to know them
on a name to name basis and try and have the occasional conversation with them,
this will be very beneficial to your image as a trusted member of the club, it
will make you look like a regular even if it's just your first visit.
From there, make small talk with people who you see there
frequently or who just happen to cross your path at a weights station or at the
drinking fountain, if you see a guy who is really huge and obviously a regular,
then go up to him and compliment him and ask him if he has any tips for you? It
helps to be friendly with that guy because on a primitive level he is actually
like the Alpha male of the gym and association with him can be beneficial to
your perceived social status.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 3: Approach Sooner Rather Than Later.
This is a pretty common mistake that guys make, they will
see a girl they are interested in and spend the next few weeks trying to catch
her eye whilst they muster up the courage to approach her and make their move.
The problem with that is, if you have already been making
eyes with her and havent approached earlier then chances are you have become
the creepy staring guy and you have shown her that you weren't confident enough
to approach her from the beginning so you are probably not a very confident
person in real life.
The best thing to do is to approach her the first
opportunity that you get because the longer you leave it, the harder and more
awkward it will get. If you are in her vicinity and you make eye contact then
say hello and make small talk, don't shy away from her because if you do then
she will probably dismiss you as a sexual prospect then and there.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 4: Recognise The Signs
No matter how good your game is there will always be some
girls who go to the gym and just don't want to be bothered at all, these women
are typically very difficult to approach effectively and in most cases it's
probably not worth bothering.
So here are five signs we can look for to tell if a hot girl
is open to being approached.
1. She is being sociable with others.
If her head is down, her earplugs are in and she looks like
she is going out of her way to avoid interacting with people, then she is not
your best bet. Look for girls who are talkative with others, they are a lot
more open to meeting new people.
2. She is looking around herself.
If you see a girl staring straight ahead trying very hard to
avoid making eye contact with anyone, she obviously takes her workout very seriously
and does not want to be bothered. Look for girls who are constantly looking
around at others, they are curious about the other people there and hoping to
make new friends.
3. She is procrastinating.
Some girls will just wait around equipment or by the water
fountain in between their exercises, these girls are obviously a bit bored and
they will generally be really responsive if you approach them.
4. She looks happy.
If a girl looks like she is smiling and genuinely enjoying
herself then she is in a good mood to be approached and will probably make it
easy for you, just smile as well and play off her vibe.
5. She keeps looking at you.
If she keeps looking over at you, then this is a pretty good
sign, especially if you catch her checking you out. Although she might not
approach, by giving you an 'indicator of interest' she is encouraging you to
make a move.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 5: Time Your Approach
It is no good approaching a girl if she is in the middle of
a weights set or working her ass off on the treadmill, it is hard enough to do
these exercises without having some guy chat you up in the process.
When you are considering using your gym as a pick up venue
you need to remember that the main reason people are there is to get a work out
and socialising comes second.
A lot of girls take their workouts pretty seriously so if
you interfere with that then they will probably get annoyed, time your approach
for when you are least likely to be interrupting her routine. Don't approach
her whilst she is stretching because this makes most girls feel uncomfortable.
You can approach girls on the treadmill, stairmaster,
exercise bike etc. but pick a time when it looks like they are taking it easy,
if they look hot and flustered don't bother. If they have just finished a heavy
workout and are huffing and puffing, wait until they get their breath back
before you approach.
The best time to approach a girl is either when she appears
to be resting or visiting the water cooler in between exercises, she will be
feeling relaxed and at ease and will be able to talk comfortably.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 6: Check Your Hygiene
Forget whatever you may have read about endorphins in sweat
creating attraction; stinky sweat is rarely ever a turn-on for girls and it
isn't good for your image.
Make sure you spray on deodorant before and after you hit
the gym floor to ensure that you are always at your best, if you think you
might have bad breath then chew on some gum, don't make the mistake of thinking
because you are getting hot and sweaty in the gym that hygiene goes out the
window.
Take a towel with you onto the gym floor to wipe the sweat
off any machines you might use, not only is this important gym etiquette but if
a girl you like has to use your sweat soaked equipment after you, then all bets
are off.
If you are going to approach a girl and you are sweaty, then
wipe the worst of your sweat away with a towell before you approach,
unfortunately there are a lot of princesses out there who are put off by a
little sweat so be mindful of that.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 7: Look At Her Eyes Not Her Body
A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that because they
are at a gym the best opening line is to tell girls that they have an awesome
body or something along those lines. If you said this to a girl in a club or a
bar she would probably think you are a sleaze and the gym is no different.
When you do approach a girl make sure that she sees you
looking at her eyes, not staring at her breasts, not checking out her ass, look
her directly in the eyes and show her that you are not like all the other
creepy guys in there and you are actually interested in them for more than
their body.
If she catches you checking her out, she might take it as a
compliment but it's unlikely she will want to jump into bed with you just
because you think she has a sexy body. Women like to be wanted for more than
their looks so show her you are attracted to her personality and not just her
perfectly sculpted booty.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 8: Approach From A Good Angle
When you approach a girl at the gym, don't come up behind her,
you will startle her and this is rarely ever a good way to meet someone;
besides if she just happens to be a martial artist then you might end up on the
receiving end of a reflexive taekwondo elbow to the face.
If you are going to approach her make sure she can see you
coming but take into account that it's generally better to be seen as not going
too far out of your way to approach her. If she is on the other side of the
floor, then cleverly work your way within a 3 metre vicinity and approach from
there.
If she can see you coming then she has time to evaluate you
before you approach and you will get a much better response, if you approach
from an angle where she can't see you then she wont have time to decide whether
she is interested in you or not and she might instinctively shun you.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 9: Use A Genuine Sounding Conversation
Starter
When you approach your girl, try and be as genuine as
possible in your opening line and steer away from pick-up lines.
Believe it or not, "If I told you, you had a great
body, would you hold it against me?" is not the ideal gym floor
conversation starter; maybe it was in the 70's but since then girls expect guys
to be a bit more clever with their opening lines.
If you can think of a clever observation or relevant
question to ask her then this is great, however if you can't think of anything
to say and you can see the opportunity slipping by then "Hi how's it
going?" is pretty acceptable.
The worst thing you can do in this situation, is say nothing
and let a perfectly awesome opportunity slip by.
Gym Pick-Up Tip 10: Make Your Workout Your Top priority
Remember that at the end of the day you are at the gym to
workout and improve your body, meeting women is your second priority and
shouldn't interfere too much with your workout.
Even if you are only there to meet women, you still need to
make working out your top priority for one simple reason, it's attractive. Just
like if you are out somewhere with friends your top priority should not be
picking up women, it should be to have a great time with your friends because
otherwise you will look like a sleaze.
Women find it really attractive when men have other stuff
going on in their lives. If you are only at the gym to pick up girls then they
will sense your desperation and it will be a turn off for them, go about your
gym routine as you usually would and when you see an opportunity to approach a
beautiful woman, take full advantage of it.
All you are really doing, is getting the most out of your
leisure time and finding great new opportunities in places you never would have
considered before. If you can master the art of picking up women in your gym
then you can potentially pick up women anywhere, on the way to work, at the
office, on an aeroplane. As a Player it is vital that we widen our scope of
seduction possibilities in order to accommodate any situation because once you
can do that, then you will be a true Player.
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